Community Guidelines
These aren’t rules handed down from above — they’re the promises we make to each other so this village stays safe for every mom and every child in it.
Ask freely, judge never
Every mom here has needed help at some point. Requests for meals, diapers, rides or a listening ear are always welcome, and responses are always kind.
Offer only what you can truly give
A promise that falls through hurts more than no offer at all. Say yes when you can, and it's always okay to say not this time.
Protect children's privacy
Never share children's full names, schools, exact addresses or birth dates. Age ranges and general neighborhoods are all this village needs.
Meet safely
First meetings and item handoffs happen in public places. Tell someone where you're going. If something feels off, leave — you never owe anyone an explanation.
Messages are private
Private conversations stay private. Administrators cannot browse your messages; a conversation is reviewed only when someone reports it for safety.
Report anything unsafe
Every report is read by our moderation team. Harassment, scams, hate, or anything that endangers a child or parent results in removal from the village.